Spanking is the English word for spanking. The practice of spanking for erotic purposes is a very old activity and a vast field, ranging from timid slaps on the partner's ass during doggy-style sex to real painful correction in cases of BDSM practices. It's a paraphilia, to use a learned word (a sexual practice that differs from acts traditionally considered normal) particularly appreciated in sadomaso relationships, but not only.
One of the interesting features of spanking is that both men and women can take pleasure in giving or receiving it.
Psychoanalysts will certainly say that it's a regressive pleasure that stems from a nostalgia for childhood and the need to be taken care of, a regressive need. But pleasure and fantasies don't care much for theory, and some shrinks would be well worth a good session.
As spanking is a very particular practice, it obviously requires the full consent of the partner, and all the more so if it's well supported.
Don't forget that spanking takes place on the buttocks, and more precisely on the area used for sitting. This area is often quite soft, and the pain will fade quickly. Spanking outside this area can lead to acute pain and complications.
A light spanking is a pleasure that everyone can enjoy. Not only can it be used as foreplay, but its sudden and often unpredictable nature makes it a real turn-on. The muscular reaction of this area and the vibrations also stimulate the erogenous zones very close to it. In the case of light spanking, it's more a cerebral than a physical act, where the transgressive and taboo aspect is an exciting factor.
As the punishment par excellence, it's clear that spanking can quickly take on an important role in games of domination. In light domination, in addition to bringing the same pleasures as an occasional slap on the buttocks, the pleasures of domination/submission come into play. It opens up a whole new world of fantasies.
In this case, it's a simulacrum of violence, where the pain caused is mild and not really the aim of the act.
In more extreme practices, only the partners' limits come into play. Any accessory can be used, and real pain can be sought. As we're not experts in this field, we're not going to dare talk about it any further. But if you're a fan of this kind of practice, you can always write a comment or post a testimonial.
There are many possible positions. The most classic are, of course, on all fours in doggy-style or without penetration, but also on your knees or leaning on a table to recall the corrections of yesteryear. The more athletic can also receive a spanking while being carried on their partner's shoulder.
BDSM practitioners, who are great fans of spanking, have their own specific equipment to enable them to practice it more assiduously and effectively. Without mentioning whips, paddles or other accessories to enhance the effect, there are numerous devices designed to immobilize the submissive. St. Andrew's crosses, torture collars and spanking benches are just some of the classics.
As we've seen, St. Andrew's crosses and spanking benches are very effective pieces of furniture, but here we're going to talk about striking accessories. If the hand seems to be the ideal accessory, the paddle, whip or riding crop can increase the pain and add distance for a stronger sense of domination or submission. It's also perfectly possible to use everyday accessories such as a hairbrush, kitchen spatula or fly swatter.
If the practice is part of both partners' fantasies, it would be a shame to go without. So don't forget to talk about it beforehand and set limits. If you like scenarios, prepare them and punish those who deserve it.
If you want to support them a little more, don't forget to define a "safe word" so that you can end the session and return to reality at any time. This way you can complain and beg as much as you like, without it stopping if that's not what you really want.
