An escort's or hostess's job is first and foremost to ensure that her client has the best possible time. The sexual part is often the first demand, so you have to be a good lay and to the liking of the partner, but very quickly in the order of importance, the social relationship appears. Social Time refers to all non-sexual contact that doesn't take place during the sexual act. It often consists of the small talk that takes place before the sexual act, but can also take place afterwards.
The practices are very different: with an escort service, this moment can take place in a bar, a restaurant, shopping or a walk in town arm in arm. For a salon hostess, it may start at the club bar, or for an in-room service, be the moment when the ice is broken before undressing or getting into bed.
Most of the time, if the girl and the customer speak the same language, this moment takes place beforehand. Among other things, it lets you know what the customer wants, but also gives a more traditional, sentimental side to the relationship. It allows the two people to put each other at ease, and why not charm and seduce a little.
For many, this part makes all the difference between a pure booty call and a more complete relationship with a woman or a transsexual.
Claudia escort in Lausanne tells us: For me, and for the majority of my clients, talking a little is very important, it allows them to put themselves at ease. For me, it allows me to find out a little more about their desires without asking them outright. But when the moment drags on and I get the impression that my customer is waiting for more than a moment of verbal sharing, I take the initiative to go further.
My aim is for my customer to get what they came for, without having to ask for it outright, or to rush into it later.
So often, the first questions are about the girl's situation and life, such as: How long have you been doing this? Isn't it too hard? Why are you doing it? What did you do before? (try to respect her privacy if you think your questions are bothering her), very quickly, depending on the hostess, the discussion will focus more on the men's situation. Her family problems, sexual problems in couples and dreams or disillusionment.
As with all discussions, there's no right or wrong subject. You just have to make sure you don't make the other person feel uncomfortable.
If you're looking for a GFE moment, the interest is obvious: it allows you to create a "more sentimental" relationship based on seduction.
For a BDSM rendezvous, it's mandatory. It allows us to calmly define the scenarios, expectations and limits of the relationship.
It allows men to calm down and relax a little for better performances to come. Some men enjoy talking to prostitutes, because they feel free to talk about anything and don't feel judged.
In any case, it sometimes gives you a genuine, beautiful smile, and that's something you can't afford - it can only be offered...
