What's dirty talk? It's not rocket science, it's a sexual practice practiced by the majority of couples that consists of using a daring vocabulary during intercourse. The aim is clearly to boost your arousal by using crude or vulgar terms that stimulate your imagination, your virility or your fantasies.
Many women find it hard to say what they want during sex. So it's just as important for them to put it into words, and it just so happens that it often turns men on.
Yes, but it's treatable :-) It's obvious that talking about your fantasies or being vulgar isn't natural for most of us, and isn't always easy to do. So it's best to take it slow and see how your partner reacts before you get too graphic. If the first phrase you say to your partner during your first intercourse is "Eat my pussy" or "I'm going to fuck you like a bitch", the result may not be what you expect.
Start slowly with the very classic "Mmmm...", "Ahh ouiiii c'est bon...", "Encoooore" or "Continue" to see the reactions and go a little further.
If you must be vulgar, remember to agree on the scenario so as not to hurt or block your partner.
Clearly, if you say to your partner: "Fuck me like a bitch" or "Treat me like a whore" it can be weird if the rules of the game aren't clear. For some people, the sexual act is a very special moment when the rules are different and sometimes the roles are reversed. If disrespect or vulgarity are not limited to sexual play, your relationship may not be healthy. But the bed is a space where the rules can be different.
Very good idea, well-chosen words are always exciting. But they have to be well-chosen for all partners. So start slowly and build up to a crescendo to see what the reactions are, or agree on what's acceptable and enjoy yourself.
A good way to start is to say what you feel: "I like what you're doing...", "I'm all wet...", "I love it when you suck me like that...". Saying what you want can make your partner more angry.
It's also important to point out that words aren't enough, and you have to be careful how you say them if you really want to turn them on.
Perfect, now the only limit is your imagination. If this practice turns you both on, go for it. Be vulgar, be graphic, speak in any language you like... It's up to you what turns you on.
To build up the excitement, you can also write hot messages talking about what you want to do tonight, or reminisce about a good time.
As we've seen, there are no rules to follow - it's up to you to decide what turns you or your partner on. Nevertheless, there are some classics. Here's a non-exhaustive list of phrases that are often effective. The following phrases are possible for a one-night stand without taking too many risks.
Start off gently, as this not only builds excitement but also gives you a feel for how far you can go without blocking your partner. Here's a good start.
Mmmm...
Ahh yesiiii that's good...
I want you...
Keep going...
I want to feel you inside me!
It's good when you ***!
I'm gonna cum!
Caress me!
Keep it coming!
I love it when you ***!
Come and lick me!
If you like it, then you can push the boundaries a little by getting a little cruder. But don't forget to indulge yourself and adapt your phrases to your partner's state of arousal and current mood. The following phrases are no longer for the prudish or preppy.
Go deeper!
In 10 minutes, I'm going to suck you deep...
I can't wait to feel you inside me...
Fuck me harder!
Eat my pussy!
Fuck me deeper!
I love your cock!
I love it when you fuck me like that!
Get on all fours!
I love your big cock!
I miss your cock/cunt...
Do you want to watch me suck you?
I want you to fuck me on all fours.
You're hot, a libertine couple and in the mood for a more porny moment. For some, the sentences that follow are akin to insults. For this reason, it really requires clear consent from both partners. In the following cases, we're at the heart of true dirty-talking. The following should suit you perfectly...
You can do whatever you want to me...
I love being fucked like that!
Damn, you're good!
I think I like your pussy/tail!
I'm gonna fucking cum!
Spank me!
Fuck me like a bitch!
I'm getting fucked!
I want to feel your cum on my face!
Fuck me any way you want!
I want your cum!
Take me like a bitch!
Treat me like a whore!
Make me your bitch!
Show me you don't have a small dick!
Stick it up my ass!
Fart my ass!
Let me eat your cum!
