Even if the first adventure with a prostitute is often an anxious moment full of preconceived ideas, in the end it often turns out to be much simpler than it seems. The first step, of course, is to choose the right prostitute. We advise you to choose someone you can communicate with. So go for a girl who speaks your language or a language you know well enough, and a girl with a little experience. Depending on your comfort level, you can opt for a girl who works in a salon, or one who has a more discreet location. We advise you to make an appointment so you can really choose who you're going to meet and have a great first time.
As explained in the article the 22 rules with an escort, the telephone call must be brief, polite and precise, and made with the aim of making an appointment. It's therefore important to read the advertisement where you found her contact. She's not here to talk too much, but to make an appointment and answer any questions you may have. If you feel the need to tell her that this is the first time you've met a prostitute, say so. In any case, don't talk too much about sex or practices worthy of porn movies. If there's something special you'd like to do, and the information isn't in her ad (sodomy, deep throat, etc.), ask her, but don't exaggerate, don't be vulgar and don't insist if she refuses.
For a first time, we advise you to allow a little more time to break the ice and talk a little - what's called "Social Time" in the business. An hour seems a minimum if you're hoping for a little more than just to get your rocks off.
And last but not least, don't forget to ask for her rates so you can prepare the money you'll need.
Wash your face, clean your breath and have the money ready in an envelope. There's nothing to stop you taking a little more if you're going to pick up some extras at the last minute, or if you're going to extend the visit a little (if she has the option). There's no need to bring condoms - they've got what it takes. Arrive on time, but not early, so as not to disrupt her schedule.
If you're stressed, don't drink too much, which could cause problems later on, but rather tell yourself that she's a professional and won't judge you.
Money is given at the very beginning of the session. Ask her to confirm the rates and give her the money. If she asks you to shower, that's not unusual. Even if you're completely clean. She's not judging your hygiene, it's just a habit sometimes.
If you're not comfortable in this area, don't forget that she is. Let her do it and enjoy. Just be careful to control yourself and don't hesitate to calm her ardor if you feel you're about to cum too fast.
If you're worried about not getting an erection or having a breakdown, relax right away. You'll be paying her to spend time with you. For her part, it's a safe bet that she won't mind much and that there are many ways to get pleasure from a woman. If you can't get a hard-on, you can please yourself by touching her, or maybe just by talking.
Once the time's up, you obviously have to leave. If you want to stay longer and she's available, you can, but you'll have to pay extra. If you'd like to tip, that's always welcome, but you're under no obligation to do so.
We hope we've answered your most frequently asked questions and wish you lots of fun.
