Premature ejaculation: How can you regain control?

You're excited, she's beautiful, the moment has finally arrived... but it all comes to an end far too quickly. Premature ejaculation, the silent scourge that affects millions of men, can turn a hot date into a frustration. But solutions do exist - and some of them are a lot simpler (and sexier) than you might think.

Why do men ejaculate too quickly?

It's not a question of weakness or lack of desire. It's often a combination of factors: stress, over-stimulation, hypersensitivity of the glans or simply a lack of training in pleasure control. When you're with an escort, the excitement is often tenfold, and control can evaporate... in a matter of seconds.

How to make it last longer?

The key is to learn how to manage your excitement without running away from it. Here are a few simple and effective ways to practice - whether alone or in the company of a willing escort:

The stop & go technique: During foreplay or penetration, stop just before orgasm, breathe deeply, then repeat. The more you repeat, the more mastery you gain.
The squeeze: Lightly squeeze the base of the glans when you feel ejaculation coming. This reduces tension and delays orgasm.
Control positions: Avoid positions where you're over-stimulated (like doggy-style) and prefer those where you manage the rhythm (like her above).
Solo training: Conscious masturbation with pauses and changes of pace is a great way to work on your stamina.
Use an escort as an ally: On Sex4u.ch, some escorts are patient, experienced and understanding. They can help you explore and improve, without pressure or judgment.

Turn your weaknesses into a playground

What if, instead of running away, you turned your rapid ejaculation into an erotic game? With a listening escort, it's possible to adapt the encounter: multiply orgasms, play with edging, bank on foreplay... and come back even stronger for round two.

Regain control over your pleasure

Controlling your ejaculation isn't about being "better than before". Above all, it's about regaining your self-confidence, enjoying yourself for longer, and offering your partner even more pleasure. And to put these tips into practice in a sensual, warm and complicit setting, discover the ideal escort for experiences that are both gentle and intense.

At Sex4u.ch, you'll find partners to explore, learn and excel... in bed and in life.